The course of love by Alain de Botton

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Yes. This should be read by everybody.

It's a sort of tough talking friend. Why the early stages of relationships are so appealing. Why they are so disappointing after the early stages. Don't live your life looking for the affirmation of the early stages, unless you're a movie star.

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